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Bad stress.

Any of you ever had really bad stress to where it messed with you physically?

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they 'say' stress can cause a lot of things physically.
Personally i don't believe a direct link between say, Stress and back pain for example.

but there could be a connection with stress and physical symptoms like this..
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Stressed > sad > depressed > slouching = back pain.
or
Stressed > sad > comfort eating > weight gain and so on.


why whats up?

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My chest has been bothering me lately and when I eat I feel really full and almost sick. I went to the doctor not too long back and he thought I was just stressed out. He prescribed me Xanax and some other things, and while Xanax seemed to be working (and ridding me of the feeling)...the feeling has come back. And after being gone for about a month.

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I work in a job where I am responsible for staff, I can influence the direction that the area of my company takes and I am often given projects that have budgets and proposed savings/profits of over £20m.

As such, I get extremely fucking stressed. I drink... a lot... to get through it. WAAAAY too much.

I also get cranky at home which fucks my home life up... I can be a right dick to my kids and missus. I'm not physically abusive but I can be a bit of an arsehole sometimes (don't get me wrong - I'm a loving father and would do anything for my kids but I can get too tightly wound sometimes).

I also occasionally take drugs (not as much as I used to) when I go out with my friends which leads to a state of depression afterwards which then adds to the stress and problems at home/work.

Welcome to my world... it sucks!

Fix the root cause of the stress and everything else should sort itself out.

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Originally posted by Vampire
I work in a job where I am responsible for staff, I can influence the direction that the area of my company takes and I am often given projects that have budgets and proposed savings/profits of over £20m.

As such, I get extremely fucking stressed. I drink... a lot... to get through it. WAAAAY too much.

I also get cranky at home which fucks my home life up... I can be a right dick to my kids and missus. I'm not physically abusive but I can be a bit of an arsehole sometimes (don't get me wrong - I'm a loving father and would do anything for my kids but I can get too tightly wound sometimes).

I also occasionally take drugs (not as much as I used to) when I go out with my friends which leads to a state of depression afterwards which then adds to the stress and problems at home/work.

Welcome to my world... it sucks!

Fix the root cause of the stress and everything else should sort itself out.

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Originally posted by Objectivist Seal Hunter
I'm sorry to hear that

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You're just being real. I guess idk what to make of this having a baby thing. I'm very excited, but maybe I don't know if I'll succeed. I worry about a lot of things though, and constantly. So obviously that could be where the stress is coming from, but i can't directly pin-point it.

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Originally posted by Objectivist Seal Hunter
I don't know if I'll succeed. I worry about a lot of things though, and constantly.

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Originally posted by Vampire
I worried constantly until the second that little shit-machine was born. Then I spent 24 hours immersed in joy and confusion... and shit.

99.9% of men step up to the plate once their kid is born so you have nothing to worry about. Instinct will take over and you'll do fine.

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Originally posted by Objectivist Seal Hunter
where the stress is coming from, but i can't directly pin-point it.

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except how to pull out

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except how to pull out

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about xanax:

Get emergency medical help if you have any of these signs of an allergic reaction: hives; difficulty breathing (didnt know what you meant about your chest); swelling of your face, lips, tongue, or throat.

Call your doctor at once if you have any of these serious side effects:

depressed mood
urinating less than usual or not at all;
drowsiness, dizziness, feeling irritable;
amnesia or forgetfulness, trouble concentrating
sleep problems (insomnia)
blurred vision
nausea, vomiting, constipation, appetite or weight changes;
dry or watery mouth, increased sweating; or
loss of interest in sex.

I didnt list everything, but some of those seem to fall into your explanation of whats going on. Anything you ingest, you should be aware of the side effects, beyond those on the bottle, it can only help in the long run, i think. And if in doubt, second guess a doctor, it saved my moms life. Hope I helped

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Originally posted by Iammyself
about xanax:

Get emergency medical help if you have any of these signs of an allergic reaction: hives; difficulty breathing (didnt know what you meant about your chest); swelling of your face, lips, tongue, or throat.

Call your doctor at once if you have any of these serious side effects:

depressed mood
urinating less than usual or not at all;
drowsiness, dizziness, feeling irritable;
amnesia or forgetfulness, trouble concentrating
sleep problems (insomnia)
blurred vision
nausea, vomiting, constipation, appetite or weight changes;
dry or watery mouth, increased sweating; or
loss of interest in sex.

I didnt list everything, but some of those seem to fall into your explanation of whats going on. Anything you ingest, you should be aware of the side effects, beyond those on the bottle, it can only help in the long run, i think. And if in doubt, second guess a doctor, it saved my moms life. Hope I helped

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xanax and whiskey and weed is super

the only non-escape method that has helped me with stress is exercise.

try exercising till you puke.

OSH, just because you go to a Quack with a "funny feeling" and he tells you its stress.

WTF!!!!!

So if he said it was the start of schizophrenia, then there would be more symptoms than just stress.

We all stress, I dont get any funny feelings that are hard to explain, I get Stressed, mentally with over a duration of time, affecting me physically.

I would seek another opinion from a doctor that someone you know can attest to. just a thought.

It might not be what you are led to believe.

you say you cant pinpoint any reason for the stress.

I would look more down the depression line..............

Are you feeling sad?

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Originally posted by Munson
xanax and whiskey and weed is super

the only non-escape method that has helped me with stress is exercise.

try exercising till you puke.

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Originally posted by yoshy
OSH, just because you go to a Quack with a "funny feeling" and he tells you its stress.

WTF!!!!!

So if he said it was the start of schizophrenia, then there would be more symptoms than just stress.

We all stress, I dont get any funny feelings that are hard to explain, I get Stressed, mentally with over a duration of time, affecting me physically.

I would seek another opinion from a doctor that someone you know can attest to. just a thought.

It might not be what you are led to believe.

you say you cant pinpoint any reason for the stress.

I would look more down the depression line..............

Are you feeling sad?

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I re-read the symptoms....stress my arse till the hole caves in.

If you like a drop or two and feel turned off by food aka not eating and chest/upper stomach pains, then go get a laproscapy I think the the problem is internal.




I am a chippie though

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When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila and salt and call me over.

There comes a point in your life when you realise;
who matters,
who never did,
who won't any more...
and who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

Why go to the doctor for a little pain or discomfort? Fuck all that. I ain't going to the hospital/doctor unless I'm fucking dying. It's that simple.

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Originally posted by parasiticgannon
Why go to the doctor for a little pain or discomfort? Fuck all that. I ain't going to the hospital/doctor unless I'm fucking dying. It's that simple.

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how would you describe the discomfort?
how many times a day? at specific times (only after eating)? and duration of this discomfort?

would you say the discomfort disables you from doing other things or is it a mild discomfort?

how long have you been stressed ans why? (if i may ask)...
Are you in a relationship - if so what is you cirmcumstance like at home?

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Originally posted by sim-card
hehe im a Jr Doctor...soo

how would you describe the discomfort?
how many times a day? at specific times (only after eating)? and duration of this discomfort?

would you say the discomfort disables you from doing other things or is it a mild discomfort?

how long have you been stressed ans why? (if i may ask)...
Are you in a relationship - if so what is you cirmcumstance like at home?

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seems like chronic anxiety..the butterfly feeling people get in their abdominal area can be felt inthe chest area too - practice breathing excercises and excercise frequently...get to sleep early enough so you have 7hrs sleep - if u are stressed and neglect excercising your body , it can often lead to much worse problems in the future (mainly heart related)....thats all i can say without a physical examination

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Originally posted by bartleby
You're so tough. I you. You're my muse.

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Originally posted by sim-card
seems like chronic anxiety..the butterfly feeling people get in their abdominal area can be felt inthe chest area too - practice breathing excercises and excercise frequently...get to sleep early enough so you have 7hrs sleep - if u are stressed and neglect excercising your body , it can often lead to much worse problems in the future (mainly heart related)....thats all i can say without a physical examination

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Originally posted by Objectivist Seal Hunter
It's like an annoying feeling in my chest, not painful, but annoying. That is the best that I can describe it. It lasts all day, everday.

It doesn't really disable me from doing anything, but it's annoying enough that it makes me not want to do anything (hard to understand i'm sure). And I'd say pretty mild.

I've been what I believe to be stressed for a few months, and yes I'm currently in a relationship. A relationship that makes me very happy!

My cicrumstances at home?

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Originally posted by sim-card
seems like chronic anxiety..the butterfly feeling people get in their abdominal area can be felt inthe chest area too - practice breathing excercises and excercise frequently...get to sleep early enough so you have 7hrs sleep - if u are stressed and neglect excercising your body , it can often lead to much worse problems in the future (mainly heart related)....thats all i can say without a physical examination

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i have neversofts number if you need it...you live close by?...hell pop over if you order some indian take out..a gerbil and some bacardi breezers

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Originally posted by ZootedLooter
i have neversofts number if you need it...you live close by?...hell pop over if you order some indian take out..a gerbil and some bacardi breezers

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Originally posted by sim-card
seems like chronic anxiety..

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Originally posted by Arthur Daily
i was thinking the same,
some people don't notice and it moves onto panic attacks.

This may sound stupid but i advised a friend once who was suffering panic attacks
to read a book.

You wont feel 'in the mood' for it, but force yourself to read some pages.
Set a goal, like upto page 20. Then Force yourself to read upto that page.

He wasn't what you would call a 'book reader' so he had to force himself to do it.
When he felt the feeling begin, he lay down in bed turned off the TV (or whatever)
and just read the words. Before he knew it, he was into the story and forgot about the anxiety attack.


Personally i would only go the drug route as a last resort.
find a way to take your mind off it 'yourself'
and you will be proud of yourself for that

Once you devolup the 'tools' yourself. You can reapply them any time.



lol, i remember when i first started to try meditation.
Man, the mind can play strange tricks. but i learnt to control the shit and now i mostly just fall asleep doing it. lol

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Originally posted by parasiticgannon
Sorry mate it has nothing to do with being tough, I'm just terrified of doctors and hospitals, I've seen enough people die in em. I'd rather just take my chances on most things.

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Originally posted by Gimp Mask
Isn't it because you can't afford medical insurance?

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Originally posted by Gimp Mask
Isn't it because you can't afford medical insurance?

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Originally posted by parasiticgannon
Sorry fucker...

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OSH... Start self-medicating you faggot! Xanax is for quitters, go buy some chronic and de-stress yourself!


P.S. You may also have AIDS.

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Originally posted by Neversoft
OSH... Start self-medicating you faggot! Xanax is for quitters, go buy some chronic and de-stress yourself!


P.S. You may also have AIDS.

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Originally posted by parasiticgannon
Sorry mate it has nothing to do with being tough, I'm just terrified of doctors and hospitals, I've seen enough people die in em. I'd rather just take my chances on most things.

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If I made an honest comment I would probably be banished to the pink.

Assume what you will...




























































...wheres your backbone faggot!

Lol.

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Originally posted by ntscuser
Same here. The last three people I admitted to hospital for 'routine tests' never came out again. Have also left instructions that if they did find something serious, they are not to tell me. I'd rather die ignorant and happy than knowledgable and miserable.

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Those who know me, or have seen my pic know that I have no hair. 90 percent of the hair on my body is gone. I was literally months away from dying and I wasn't doing too much to stop it.

Bad marriage, too much debt, working full time, schooling full time, sleeping (no exaggeration here) 6-8 hours a week. Nearly 4.5 years of that shit. I gained a bunch of weight, and just pretty much was waiting to die.


Stress is bad, mmmkay?

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Originally posted by eljefeoscuro
Those who know me, or have seen my pic know that I have no hair. 90 percent of the hair on my body is gone. I was literally months away from dying and I wasn't doing too much to stop it.

Bad marriage, too much debt, working full time, schooling full time, sleeping (no exaggeration here) 6-8 hours a week. Nearly 4.5 years of that shit. I gained a bunch of weight, and just pretty much was waiting to die.


Stress is bad, mmmkay?

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Your only stressed if you allow it !!!

FUCK STRESS

Think happy thoughts

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you look stressed.

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When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila and salt and call me over.

There comes a point in your life when you realise;
who matters,
who never did,
who won't any more...
and who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

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Originally posted by cupidstunt
You see, I wouldn't call that stress. I would call that self harm or self abuse. Not the usual couple of sleepless nights and a waaa waaa can't handle life !

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just my opinion,although i dont know much- but what i do know is that-
mortgages suck.
jobs.. u do em cause u have to.
kids they r just plain right terrible.
spouses...well u deal with them,and luckily u find a way to have fun doing it.
u should find yr'self a hobby...
or just drink alot.
k.k

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Originally posted by ZootedLooter
just my opinion,although i dont know much- but what i do know is that-
mortgages suck.
jobs.. u do em cause u have to.
kids they r just plain right terrible.
spouses...well u deal with them,and luckily u find a way to have fun doing it.
u should find yr'self a hobby...
or just drink alot.
k.k

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Originally posted by Objectivist Seal Hunter
I have a couple hobbies, but eh. And drinking a whole lot is not an option! Lol.

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When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila and salt and call me over.

There comes a point in your life when you realise;
who matters,
who never did,
who won't any more...
and who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

dont listen to kryssy...shes a bartender....and drinking alot is what got me married to her

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looter n. : someone who takes spoils or plunder (as in war) [syn: plunderer, pillager, spoiler, despoiler, raider, freebooter]

When you stress a lot you lose magnesium. Stay away from caffeine (coffee, sodas etc) it drains the magnesium out of your body.

Eat foods that contains magnesium, it is really good.

Eat a lot of these, they contain magnesium:
spinach
nuts (especially cashews and almonds)
black-eyed pea
milk: low fat
peanutbutter (downside: too fatty)

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Originally posted by ZootedLooter
dont listen to kryssy...shes a bartender....and drinking alot is what got me married to her

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Originally posted by yoshy
That could be paras reply

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Originally posted by parasiticgannon
Grant it, by being selfish and taking some "me time" it's not going to resolve your issues, but maybe you can get some perspective and try and resolve, if not resolve try to learn to deal with your issues.

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Originally posted by parasiticgannon
FUCK YOU

When I'm stressed which is all the time, I just try and take some time out for myself and just do what I wanna do. Not care about anyone else for that brief time.

Grant it, by being selfish and taking some "me time" it's not going to resolve your issues, but maybe you can get some perspective and try and resolve, if not resolve try to learn to deal with your issues.

Before Bran passed away my life was go go go, Not so much now. My life is still stressful, but for other reasons.

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When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila and salt and call me over.

There comes a point in your life when you realise;
who matters,
who never did,
who won't any more...
and who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.